So, I have gotten a lot of questions recently and also a lot of hate. Figured I’d answer some things about my experience and why I have turned here of all places, like I’ve seen many others do, for help in my situation.
Some of you may have seen my request for help with my divorce because, unfortunately it is expensive and I’m having a very hard time finding decent employment in my area. Why get divorced after 11 years is one question I get alot, and the answer is that my husband was physically and mentally abusive for the last 8 years or so. Including when I was pregnant with our daughter about 5 years ago. I have gotten comments when I say that he’s a textbook narcissist that all women say that, and I do know that to be true but I’ve endured psychiatric stays with him, filed domestic abuse charges, etc. I’ve been through alot and finally decided to leave after my wrist and foot was broken among years of countless life threatening fights.
I left with my pajamas and my daughter. During the restraining order that I had for my daughter and I against him, he burned everything I had and some of my mom’s belongings. I had nothing. I was working at the time and put a down payment on a 1999 fifth wheel camper that I remodeled myself and made liveable, as it was not in good condition. I am still making payments on it and I am not employed. My daughter is almost 5 so life has been extremely hard, and my husband is not helping financially.
I cannot file for divorce and legally escape him because the lawyers are too costly and I have to share custody with him until I can save up for the battle while also supporting my daughter.









